If I’m checking you out, I’m probably thinking about your hands and your wrists. And if your sleeves are pushed up, I’m fixating on your forearms, watching the movement of the sinews as you play with your phone, or your lighter, or your drink. Forearms make me think about sex. They often hold [...]

Some men are vocal. Matt, for example, is deliciously vocal. But many men are quiet. A guy friend of mine claims this is because men first learn to orgasm in extreme private, often jerking off in silence to avoid detection. Maybe that’s true – I don’t know. I just know [...]