Yeah, that means you, Tight Magazine. It’s appropriate that my rapey post was the one you chose to steal because, well…
And it’s one thing to have someone lift your writing. It’s something else to see that writing dumbed down and run through the imagined voice of a teen. I’ve just been blog-raped.
This [...]

During the press fit, I pulled a large number of fairly harmless posts.  I was just playing it safe, arguably too safe.  Now that it’s less of a concern, I’m going to repost some of those old notes, some for narrative continuity, some because I’ve been asked to.  (In some cases, I have no idea [...]

ABC News didn’t out me. My mother recognized me. Huge difference.
That’s what happens when you use misleading headlines, Gawker. People skip over the content and simply reiterate that first line, spawning a thousand micro-stories like a bad game of telephone.
Further note: Gabriel is not a client.
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So.
There’s a broad spectrum of experiences, options, [...]

I write for two reasons: it’s a form of release, foremost, and it leaves a record. But it’s only useful to me if it’s honest. Empty it of its authenticity and it’s just a writing exercise.
This raises the question: what’s honest?
The act of writing is a process of selection, creation, and sometimes extrapolation, [...]

It’s Monday morning here in Paris, the middle of the night for most of you in North America. I’m here on a gig. This one is very specific and unusual: he’s a voyeur, so, like most of my gigs, it isn’t quid pro quo in the conventional sense of whoredom. We’ve also [...]

Since I’ve been writing about sex with multiples, I thought I should post a short note on decorum and condoms.
If you’re a man, you probably know that you should never make an issue about condom use. It’s bad form. Don’t force it into a topic of conversation. Don’t haggle. Don’t whine. [...]

Sexsomnia was recently in the news: a man was just acquitted of sexual assault charges on the grounds of sexsomnia, or “non-insane automatism.” Via UPI. Snarkified via Jezebel. (Thank you for this, EP.)
To revisit the subject, sexsomnia is a parasomnia, and parasomnias are disorders in which the body’s physiological systems are activated during [...]

[First part here.]
Before I go further, I should say that I watch porn. A lot of porn. I like porn. When I take issue with porn, it’s the quality I dislike, not the genre. I dislike the tedium, the predictability, the fake tans, the plasticky breasts, the baseball caps, the lack of [...]

To carry forward the theme of less-than-ideal client experiences, I can mention another as a segue. I was asked to visit a notoriously awful client by a booker who knew the challenge would interest me – my rate was raised to off-set the hassle I expected to enjoy. This client had a reputation [...]

Met some lovely people and, as a result, I’ve come across some great writing.
Calico (beautiful creature) has a great blog – very hot – which traces her experiences as a pro-domme.
May is an unusually articulate and thoughtful young man; his blog follows his experiences as a submissive and bisexual. Kinks are exciting to me [...]