Comments on: notes. http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/ Thu, 03 Jun 2010 17:24:36 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Sean http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-6532 Sean Mon, 30 Nov 2009 00:00:04 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-6532 I have never heard about Charlotte Stokely, but I do know Sasha Grey. I agree with you that she owns her sex, but she pretty much owns anything she does. She gives her all no matter what, from her music projects to her porn, to her main stream appearances. I have never heard about Charlotte Stokely, but I do know Sasha Grey. I agree with you that she owns her sex, but she pretty much owns anything she does. She gives her all no matter what, from her music projects to her porn, to her main stream appearances.

]]> By: (NSFW!) ALTERNATIVE BEAUTY STANDARDS OR SAME OLD THING? » Sociological Images http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-6504 (NSFW!) ALTERNATIVE BEAUTY STANDARDS OR SAME OLD THING? » Sociological Images Fri, 27 Nov 2009 09:04:03 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-6504 [...] Debauchette, who has some of the sexy ads on her site, says, …I like the candor.  I’m a little tired of the coy push-and-pull that we teach young women, as if they should play up their sexuality but ultimately recoil from sexual activity, resulting in our classically conflicted nympho-puritanical views: we’re sex-saturated (advertising, porn) yet we’re also sex-avoidant (MPAA, morality laws). If we’re talking about depictions of women, I want to see more of this, of women looking you in the eye and fucking owning their sex. [...] [...] Debauchette, who has some of the sexy ads on her site, says, …I like the candor.  I’m a little tired of the coy push-and-pull that we teach young women, as if they should play up their sexuality but ultimately recoil from sexual activity, resulting in our classically conflicted nympho-puritanical views: we’re sex-saturated (advertising, porn) yet we’re also sex-avoidant (MPAA, morality laws). If we’re talking about depictions of women, I want to see more of this, of women looking you in the eye and fucking owning their sex. [...]

]]> By: Isabella Blue http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-2561 Isabella Blue Sun, 08 Feb 2009 18:04:53 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-2561 "nympho-puritanical" "sex-saturated (advertising, porn) yet we’re also sex-avoidant" A perfect example of the natural balance of the universe. What would one talk about without the other. I thought you'd be interested in this AA vs. San Francisco clip. Old-School hipters vs. neo-hipsters. http://www.elephantjournal.com/2009/02/old-school-hipsters-vs-neo-hipsters-community-independent-businesses-vs-progressive-chain-storeits-the-mission-vs-american-apparel/ oxox ~ib “nympho-puritanical” “sex-saturated (advertising, porn) yet we’re also sex-avoidant”

A perfect example of the natural balance of the universe. What would one talk about without the other.

I thought you’d be interested in this AA vs. San Francisco clip. Old-School hipters vs. neo-hipsters.

http://www.elephantjournal.com/2009/02/old-school-hipsters-vs-neo-hipsters-community-independent-businesses-vs-progressive-chain-storeits-the-mission-vs-american-apparel/

oxox
~ib

]]> By: Disconnected http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-2536 Disconnected Sat, 31 Jan 2009 07:26:49 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-2536 Hey D, Out of topic for this post, but check out the work of the guy below on Flickr if you have time, you may find it interesting. http://www.flickr.com/photos/kellylind/ Hey D,

Out of topic for this post, but check out the work of the guy below on Flickr if you have time, you may find it interesting.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/kellylind/

]]> By: Business Memes » (NSFW!) ALTERNATIVE BEAUTY STANDARDS OR SAME OLD THING? http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-2461 Business Memes » (NSFW!) ALTERNATIVE BEAUTY STANDARDS OR SAME OLD THING? Mon, 26 Jan 2009 16:25:11 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-2461 [...] Debauchette, who has some of the sexy ads on her site, says, …I like the candor.  I’m a little tired of the coy push-and-pull that we teach young women, as if they should play up their sexuality but ultimately recoil from sexual activity, resulting in our classically conflicted nympho-puritanical views: we’re sex-saturated (advertising, porn) yet we’re also sex-avoidant (MPAA, morality laws). If we’re talking about depictions of women, I want to see more of this, of women looking you in the eye and fucking owning their sex. [...] [...] Debauchette, who has some of the sexy ads on her site, says, …I like the candor.  I’m a little tired of the coy push-and-pull that we teach young women, as if they should play up their sexuality but ultimately recoil from sexual activity, resulting in our classically conflicted nympho-puritanical views: we’re sex-saturated (advertising, porn) yet we’re also sex-avoidant (MPAA, morality laws). If we’re talking about depictions of women, I want to see more of this, of women looking you in the eye and fucking owning their sex. [...]

]]> By: jess http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-2403 jess Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:22:39 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-2403 amen: the "coy push-and-pull" you just described clicked with me in a way i can't quite express -- probably because i'm at any given time caught in the middle of those two extremes; that "nympho-puritanical" viewpoint is one i don't know how to shake, and it's disgusting. reading your blog opens my eyes somehow. keep writing; i'm loving it. amen: the “coy push-and-pull” you just described clicked with me in a way i can’t quite express — probably because i’m at any given time caught in the middle of those two extremes; that “nympho-puritanical” viewpoint is one i don’t know how to shake, and it’s disgusting.

reading your blog opens my eyes somehow. keep writing; i’m loving it.

]]> By: O http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-2388 O Sun, 11 Jan 2009 18:18:08 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-2388 <i>If we’re talking about depictions of women, I want to see more of this, of women looking you in the eye and fucking owning their sex. Amen to that--from another godless fornicator. My first visit to you;I'll be back. Thanks.</i> If we’re talking about depictions of women, I want to see more of this, of women looking you in the eye and fucking owning their sex.

Amen to that–from another godless fornicator.

My first visit to you;I’ll be back. Thanks.

]]> By: Hippo Man http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-2366 Hippo Man Fri, 09 Jan 2009 06:30:43 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-2366 I love Sasha Grey! However, for some reason, I never heard of Charlotte Stokely until now. She must have slipped through the cracks. Well, I trust your judgment and taste, and I'm already in the process of introducing myself to the works of Ms. Stokely. I pretty much agree with what you wrote about our nympho-puritannical views. I doubt it will change any time soon. We started here with a puritannical culture 400 years ago, and waves of immigration from all corners of the globe still haven't weakened its primal force. That having been said, there's a chance that the current cultural wave might actually make a difference. The women I've met with the fewest hypocritical sexual hangups are Hispanics ... the ones I know the best are from Ecuador and Colombia, but I suspect that this is equally true in most parts of the Hispanic world. As for that insidious puritannical force, I'm now thinking that it might actually have some value. The inner conflict that it leads to causes some very intense sexual feelings to be built up, and the pleasures that come in fighting against, playing with, and overcoming these puritan forces lead to some powerfully intense orgasms. Think of how less hot Sasha Grey would be if she just enjoyed sex as part of the natural expression of love and human intimacy. Maybe those original Puritans were on to something, after all! Happy New Year! I love Sasha Grey! However, for some reason, I never heard of Charlotte Stokely until now. She must have slipped through the cracks. Well, I trust your judgment and taste, and I’m already in the process of introducing myself to the works of Ms. Stokely.

I pretty much agree with what you wrote about our nympho-puritannical views. I doubt it will change any time soon. We started here with a puritannical culture 400 years ago, and waves of immigration from all corners of the globe still haven’t weakened its primal force.

That having been said, there’s a chance that the current cultural wave might actually make a difference. The women I’ve met with the fewest hypocritical sexual hangups are Hispanics … the ones I know the best are from Ecuador and Colombia, but I suspect that this is equally true in most parts of the Hispanic world.

As for that insidious puritannical force, I’m now thinking that it might actually have some value. The inner conflict that it leads to causes some very intense sexual feelings to be built up, and the pleasures that come in fighting against, playing with, and overcoming these puritan forces lead to some powerfully intense orgasms.

Think of how less hot Sasha Grey would be if she just enjoyed sex as part of the natural expression of love and human intimacy.

Maybe those original Puritans were on to something, after all!

Happy New Year!

]]> By: etre http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-2354 etre Tue, 06 Jan 2009 04:53:02 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-2354 De-lurking to say - you know, after all these months, I've finally figured out what it is about your/the AA web-ads that bother me. It isn't the large glasses or nipples on pale skin. It is only partly, <em>"Why would anyone wear a bodysuit?"</em> What bugs me, is that the ads <em>move</em>. (I don't own a TV.) :) De-lurking to say – you know, after all these months, I’ve finally figured out what it is about your/the AA web-ads that bother me.

It isn’t the large glasses or nipples on pale skin.
It is only partly, “Why would anyone wear a bodysuit?”

What bugs me, is that the ads move.

(I don’t own a TV.)

:)

]]> By: Yola http://debauchette.com/2008/12/notes-3/comment-page-1/#comment-2351 Yola Tue, 06 Jan 2009 00:25:47 +0000 http://debauchette.com/?p=637#comment-2351 Oups, by the way, you made me real curious. What's the AA adds for your site you're talking about ? Yola again Oups, by the way, you made me real curious. What’s the AA adds for your site you’re talking about ?

Yola again

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