During the press fit, I pulled a large number of fairly harmless posts.  I was just playing it safe, arguably too safe.  Now that it’s less of a concern, I’m going to repost some of those old notes, some for narrative continuity, some because I’ve been asked to.  (In some cases, I have no idea [...]

Interesting fall-out from Mr. Weiss’ piece: I’m getting requests from men who’d like to be clients. A lot of requests, requests I didn’t believe were genuine at first. I’m flattered, but there’s no way I’m taking clients through my blog.
The moment I take a client through my blog, my blog changes. It becomes a [...]

I’ve been getting a few quizzical emails suggesting to me that I should back up and explain a bit about where I’m coming from, how I view sex, why sex matters to me, what my deal is with relationships. And I keep getting questions about that Sawyer interview. So this is sort of [...]

Sometimes I wake up distracted by the need to masturbate. I usually deal with this by bringing myself off, but there are days when I can’t masturbate enough. I just throb. I bring myself off again, and again, and again until I’m out of time or my body’s too raw to come, but [...]

I had to take a little time away to make sure I didn’t do or say or delete something I’d regret, and now that the traffic has come and gone, I feel a little more steady, if stunned.
It’s a strange thing watching your traffic spike like that. It feels ominous, if only because I’ve [...]