Comments on: note to men: decorum and condoms

By: anon

anon — Sun, 22 Feb 2009 15:23:20 +0000

Always us a rubber and dispose of so others don’t come in contact with it. Best to flush it down the toilet.

By: Curious

Curious — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 10:05:45 +0000

I love the fact you visited this subject.

It’s not brought up enough and men these days…..

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By: fireweaver

fireweaver — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 23:38:09 +0000

ugh, i was dating this weasel you speak of 2 summers ago. i had to stop him at about the time he was trying to “just put the tip in” and tell him a condom was a necessity. he flat-out told me no. then went on to whine about how “it’s so not fair, a man can’t come with a condom on, there’s just no sensation at all!”

and yes, of course, i had the backup condoms in my bag with me. clearly one of us wasn’t so much an adult…and that relationship was promptly over.

By: Garrett

Garrett — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 13:55:12 +0000

Very well said. Any man who wheedles and whines about safer sex is not ready to have sex of any kind…save with himself.

By: stripper

stripper — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 06:49:04 +0000

To this day I still meet men who don’t even know how to put a condom on.

By: Amanda

Amanda — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 01:20:16 +0000

I’m so glad you wrote this!! We don’t talk enough about ways to enjoy sex safely!

By: Savage Henry

Savage Henry — Sat, 16 Feb 2008 23:32:25 +0000

I save money on condoms by only having sex with myself.