I was relieved when James called to say, “Come to my place first. We need to play.”
Yeah we do.
I woke up this morning feeling restless and underfucked, and now I’m pacing. I’ve been in a mood for it all day, and I still have fresh memories of being pinned, cheek-to-wall, skirt hitched.
My phone’s ringing: it’s [...]

Fuckbuddy’s favorite question: “Are you still seeing clients?”
And my answer varies. I am, or I’m not, or I’m only seeing the clients I trust, or I’m giving a new guy a shot, or I’m cutting everyone loose. When I stop, there’s a lot that I miss. I miss the clients. I miss the [...]

I’m officially dating the man I met at the multi-girl sexfest. He’s going to need a name, so I’ll call him James.
Over dinner, he said, “It’s kind of weird that we met at a fivesome. I didn’t even know your name.” He didn’t even know my name, and yet he’d explored nearly [...]

I’ve been derelict here. I think it’s because all of my blogging time has been spent texting, and texting has become the lifeline to most of my relationships. This can’t be good.
I’m glad Tilda Swinton just won Best Supporting Actress.
And I loved Michael Clayton.
There are things I should be noting down, because [...]

Whiplash travel always feels so dream-like. Your head is hazy. Every conversation, every excursion feels a little surreal. And then you return, you take that cab back into the city and it’s just as you’ve left it. You’re left wondering how much of that trip was real and how much is [...]

It’s Monday morning here in Paris, the middle of the night for most of you in North America. I’m here on a gig. This one is very specific and unusual: he’s a voyeur, so, like most of my gigs, it isn’t quid pro quo in the conventional sense of whoredom. We’ve also [...]

Since I’ve been writing about sex with multiples, I thought I should post a short note on decorum and condoms.
If you’re a man, you probably know that you should never make an issue about condom use. It’s bad form. Don’t force it into a topic of conversation. Don’t haggle. Don’t whine. [...]

Sexsomnia was recently in the news: a man was just acquitted of sexual assault charges on the grounds of sexsomnia, or “non-insane automatism.” Via UPI. Snarkified via Jezebel. (Thank you for this, EP.)
To revisit the subject, sexsomnia is a parasomnia, and parasomnias are disorders in which the body’s physiological systems are activated during [...]

Maybe it was the gangbang talk. I’m mindless and wet and I want cock.
I’m seeing the twentysomething tonight and it’s long overdue. I’ve been craving this boy since our last few flings before I ran off to Europe, and I’ve been thinking about him ever since. I want him as a permanent [...]

C wrote: Thus far, you’ve primarily written about sex with men. This is the first time we’ve heard about sex with women. It would be interesting to read your thoughts on the relative merits of both…
I can try. I haven’t really given it much thought, but maybe I should.
I generally associate women with [...]