monthly.
A designer once mentioned that she made a menstruation kit which included a variety of objects made of precious materials, among them a vibrator. I asked her about this, why she’d include a vibrator, and she said that studies have shown that sex actually relieves menstrual pain. And that makes sense: orgasms release endorphins, endorphins relieve pain.
Last night, my period was in full force and it prompted me to cancel a drink date (we both knew it wasn’t going to stop at the drinks). I was in that no-amount-of-Aleve-is-going-to-help phase, so I planned to stay in and do some work instead. But then came the text messages, and I’m susceptible to text-message pressure, so I caved. I wanted to nestle against him anyway.
He’s utterly indifferent to my period, which is an excellent quality in a man, but my period had just started. I wasn’t feeling sexual. I just wanted to curl up.
What the designer had said was true. When I started to drift off, Matt stroked and petted and gently probed. Last I remembered, he was fucking me, slowly but very deeply, and the pain went away.
Way back in the day (c.1980) , I had a girlfriend who required sex during her period every month.For her, it had the cramp-abating effect that our hostess describes, and also the important but tangential side benefit of teaching me not to be so freakin’ squeamish about a little blood. And I haven’t been since.
I’ve also found orgasms and fucking to be very beneficial for my lovers relief during menstruation. I learned at a very early age that their blood didn’t bother me at all and I’ve been totally blood neutral since the first time. Which is fine, EXCEPT that I’ve run into quite a few women who just can’t stand having any touching/loving/eating/fucking during their period, because they have a total mental/emotional block that anyone could accept their bloody condition. I find this sooo frustrating! So please. Relax ladies. Let us please you.
i love all your writings, but for some reason, i still think this is the sexiest thing ive read.
If a man doesn’t like to fuck during a period,he is gone. If a man can’t help me feel better and get over some self created hang up . He is not for me. Men who hate period sex are not the best of lovers.Virgo seem to factor into their chart.