Comments on: cravings. http://debauchette.com/2007/12/cravings/ Thu, 03 Jun 2010 17:24:36 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Rae http://debauchette.com/2007/12/cravings/comment-page-1/#comment-97 Rae Fri, 21 Dec 2007 14:14:48 +0000 http://debauchette.wordpress.com/2007/12/18/cravings/#comment-97 I just found you through Sexoteric, and I love this entry. I look forward to reading more. I feel the same way about my curiosity of dominance or submission being stronger in me. I always thought I was more dominant, actually, just because of my daily life and my want to be strong and independent...but I think I am more submissive sexually. It's fascinating to think about, but I agree with Gentleman Whore that the more sexually actualized one is the more curious/comfortable one is to explore. You're welcome to check out my blog too. It's mostly sexual, but about 20% is just daily life. :-) I just found you through Sexoteric, and I love this entry. I look forward to reading more.

I feel the same way about my curiosity of dominance or submission being stronger in me. I always thought I was more dominant, actually, just because of my daily life and my want to be strong and independent…but I think I am more submissive sexually. It’s fascinating to think about, but I agree with Gentleman Whore that the more sexually actualized one is the more curious/comfortable one is to explore.

You’re welcome to check out my blog too. It’s mostly sexual, but about 20% is just daily life. :-)

]]> By: Gentleman Whore http://debauchette.com/2007/12/cravings/comment-page-1/#comment-96 Gentleman Whore Tue, 18 Dec 2007 22:06:27 +0000 http://debauchette.wordpress.com/2007/12/18/cravings/#comment-96 To me it makes sense that the more sexually actualized you are, the more comfortable and curious you'll be with multiple roles or stepping outside the shoes you've regularly worn. Even someone who approaches sexuality with great intellectual and sensual curiosity would have a hard time staying on one side of the fence, I think. My initial interests in BDSM were mostly dominant or top-related but now my desires run the entire gamut of that spectrum, though I wouldn't go to many of those places with just anyone. To me it makes sense that the more sexually actualized you are, the more comfortable and curious you’ll be with multiple roles or stepping outside the shoes you’ve regularly worn. Even someone who approaches sexuality with great intellectual and sensual curiosity would have a hard time staying on one side of the fence, I think. My initial interests in BDSM were mostly dominant or top-related but now my desires run the entire gamut of that spectrum, though I wouldn’t go to many of those places with just anyone.

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