Some men are vocal. Matt, for example, is deliciously vocal. But many men are quiet. A guy friend of mine claims this is because men first learn to orgasm in extreme private, often jerking off in silence to avoid detection. Maybe that’s true – I don’t know. I just know [...]

Mm. Andrew.
I’ll fix my room for you. I’ll stabilize my bed, clear out the clutter, and fix eye bolts where the headboard should be.
There’s something I want to do.

I’ve googled my own blog and found that it’s appeared not just here, among the Wordpresses and Blogspots, but also in a vast field of domains with the words “femdom” and “facesitting” and “strap-on” and “cbt” and “feminization” and “ball-busting” in the names. And I’m thinking, does google have something it wants to say? [...]

I’ve been fantasizing about it for a while now, tying him down. It’s the way he arches so sharply when I take his cock in my mouth and the way he bucks like a man possessed when I’m on top. Sometimes when I straddle his hips, I hold him down with my [...]

I haven’t given head in weeks and I miss it. One of the men I’m seeing doesn’t understand that I love it – he thinks it’s something women do out of obligation, rather than desire. The other is so dominant that it’s difficult for me to redirect the flow of movement. [...]

The first time I saw Baise-Moi (which translates to ‘Fuck Me‘) I was living in Italy, so I saw it in badly dubbed in Italian with my boyfriend. We’d rented it when I’d told him that it had been banned in several countries for its scenes of explicit sex and violence. He was sold. [...]

Last night, I was forced by my restless uterus to sit at home with tea and bad television. I’d dosed up on codeine-enriched ibuprofen and Advil PM when my late-night fallen boy called. To my surprise, he sounded lucid. He wanted to play.
I told him that there was no way, seeing how I [...]

Just got in from a date. I handle my smittenness with Matt by seeking other men. If I didn’t, I’d probably smother him with mad-girl lust, and something like pride or fear prevents this. Maybe I’m hedging. Maybe I’m a pussy. Whatever the reason, I went out with someone new tonight. [...]

A promising display of fetish shoes just came and went at the Galerie du Passage in Paris (closed Nov. 3). I wish I could have gone. The display, or installation, was a collaboration between the shoe designer Christian Louboutin and the filmmaker David Lynch, who produced photographs for the exhibition.
Leonora Oppenheim, of CoolHunting, writes, [...]

I’ve got a great deal of gear and very little use for it. I have an array of wrist cuffs, two crops, several Paul Seville neck cuffs, four waist cinchers, three corsets, a few Betony Vernon pieces (worn on the hands), lots and lots of complicated lingerie with straps and hooks and bows and [...]